Happy Friday, everyone. I hope you had a great week with a great weekend ahead. We finally got a break from the rain and it has been wonderful. I and my hair appreciate the break very much.
Today, I just want you all to say I am not the only one

I have this whole section of my closet for the person I sometimes want to be or think I will be. I see a cute dress and think oh that would be cute to wear to a cocktail party or a fancy tea…..but guess what? I don’t have either of those things to go to. I have a leather jacket that I bought with the thought that it would be cute with jeans when I go to dinner with friends. Well turns out we are old and we go to lunch not dinner and I have not needed said leather jacket.
I was standing in my closet and looking at how many clothes I have for the pretend me and thinking okay, I just need clothes for the actual me.
I have a whole section of swimsuits and coverups and straw hats for the beach me and I absolutely hate the beach. Not only do I not have any plans to go. I don’t even want to make any plans to go. I might actually tear up if someone invited me.
It’s all these just in case clothes….just in case I become a whole different person living a whole different life that are staring me in the face, essentially mocking me. Well I am focused now and shopping for my real life. I will not need any high heels, pool or beach wear, fancy dinner wear, business attire….all that stuff is fully stocked for the rest of my life.
What a relief…..now I can just concentrate on loungewear, leggings and summer dresses….I do love a good summer dress.
Tell me I am not the only one with a larger just in case section than necessary.
Have a wonderful weekend enjoying your real life wearing your real clothes!









You are not alone (in my Michael Jackson voice)! WHY do I have swimwear and I can’t swim. WHY do I have full length wool coats when it only gets cold 7 hours a year here and I’m perpetually hot these days!
Oh donβt even get me started on the coat section
I feel seen…:)
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